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Bigotry: A vice confined to the weakest minds. ~ Anonymous

What is it about my being a white man that makes some people think any argument I make in any discussion I join on any topic is invalid? Honestly, what do my sex and skin colour have to do with my ability to think, form, and express a thought? I am an educated man. I was fortunate to have been born in Canada in the mid-twentieth century. I had the benefit of a public education and earned two university degrees. My schooling included lessons in history, music, drama, and logic. I learned how important objectivity is in the pursuit of knowledge and truth. I also learned that you should judge others as individuals according to their character. So, then why, in 2026, do my sex and race matter to so many people? So much so that I am attacked for being an old white man with no regard to my character. The thing to remember is that despite being white and male, I had to compete for spots in university and employment. Nothing was guaranteed. I suffered hardship and disappointment along the way. Like many Canadians my age, I had to move back in with my parents for a while after graduating from university with a B.A., only to find there was no room for me in the workforce. I remember well when I was in grade 8, my teacher lectured the class on the importance of getting an education. It was that, or you could expect to draw a welfare cheque. I remember the ads in the 1990s that pitched the message, “More education equals more job choices.” I did as my elders told me, only to end up educated, unemployed, and having to move in with my parents. I did not give up. I struggled to find work and initially found jobs through temporary employment agencies. It was at one of these temporary jobs that my supervisor suggested I enroll in library school. I applied and was offered admission to the School of Library and Information Science at the University of Western Ontario (now called Western University) in 1990. I graduated in 1993 with a Master of Library and Information Science degree.

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Gay men don’t have much in common with lesbians. — Douglas Murray

The thing to remember is that gay is a demographic, not a coherent community. I am a gay man, a free thinker and a skeptic. I am proudly Anglo-Saxon; both sides of my family came from the British Isles, my father’s family from England and my mother’s from Ireland. Short of taking a DNA test, it is anyone’s guess what blend of ethnicities may be in my ancestry. However, that is neither here nor there. The fact remains that I am a middle-aged, gay white man. That said, those characteristics are irrelevant. Above all else, I am an individual. I am the man I am today because of my childhood and adolescence circumstances. I grew up in Canada in the latter half of the 20th century. I remember the Centennial celebrations in 1967 on Canada’s 100th birthday. I learned to take pride in my heritage, and the freedoms and opportunities afforded me as a Canadian. Still, growing up gay in my generation had its challenges. Continue reading